It's not her fault she's so irresistible...

And the topic of the day! :

Cheaters, Players, Pimps and Hoes.

Sure, the hoes are kind of random, but hey! It went along with the topic.

You may be thinking, "Why Raven? Why such a controversial, hurtful, sexful topic?!"

Well, that's exactly why. It's a controversial, hurtful, sexful topic.

As I sit here & munch on my brownie & tortilla chips & drink my fruit punch, I wonder "Why am I having preggy craving now?" and "What would I do if I enountered a cheater, player, pimp or hoe? What would I do it I was the cheater, player, or pimp?" (Excluded the hoe on there. I'd never be that) So here are my opinions:

+If someone cheated on me (and someone has) I'd do this...

Of course he didnt have a car back then, but it's a very nice idea...

I could never tolerate a cheater and I'll put my foot down! (On his penis) It just shows yu cant trust him and what's the point of being with someone you cant trust?

+If I was the cheater... well, that wouldn't happen. I'd break up with someone before I'd go find someone else. Why cause the drama? No. Why be greedy?!

+If someone played me... Please see above. My goodness. He better have some good health insurance too. That's all I gotta say. (lol) No. I'd just drop him like it was hot and move on the the next best thing. It's his loss. So who cares? Sure, I'd be pissed as a muther, but it's just another guy who showed me his true face. Now if the "game" continued for a long time and he didn't tell me, then that's when imma have to turn into my ghetto alter ego & go at him. End of story.

+If I was the player, I'd be pretty darn good at my game, yo! ;]

But I'm not that way, so this wouldnt happen... But if I was the flirty-bitch type, then I'd be da bomb. Hang with a different guy everyday!

Now the pimpin's part... If I was a pimp, I'd get that tattooed on my side. I'd never encounter a pimp because I'm not a hoe. So that's done. But back to my pimp status, I'd be the #1 male pimp out there. Slappin', havin em turn some tricks, and be hella rich. *ahhhh* Beautiful.

But in all, this is more about leaving people who are not bringing you up.

If you know your girl or guy is a cheater, you can find WAY better. You dont have to settle just for them.

If you're talking to a player, why stay? (Unless you like that kind of junk) You can find someone who will actually commit to you and only you.

If you're a cheater, just admit it. It saves so much time wasted, much less stress trying to hide something and so much better because you're honest. And everyone loves an honest person!

If you're a player... Well... stop. We already have too many STDs being spread around our young age group and everyone know you ain't gettin' tested like you should be. Every 6 months? Every 6 months my ass...

No one wants this...

But everyone wants this...

And not hear this...

Whatcha lookin' fo?

Have you ever had someone who looked for the bad in everything & just couldn't find it?

I have and it is not the greatest thing to experience. It's even worse when its a parent or a person you're in a relationship with.

I know someone who always looked for something wrong. If I was texting someone while walking through the door & didn't say "Hey" it was a disaster. "Who u texting? You're new boyfriend? You can't say 'Hi'?"

If I'm not talking as much: "What's wrong? You're not happy with me? Is there someone else?"

If I didn't text back fast enough: "Oh. You must be texting your new boyfriend."

I got so tired of it that I just wanted to yell out "Whatcha lookin' fo?! *hint: the title* Are you trying to convince me to cheat so you can prove your point?!"

I thought it would end when I was pregnant because who wants a pregnant girl? Honestly? What guy snatches up himself a preggy?? Exactly.

I looked like a whale. I literally looked like & felt like I had a basketball under my shirt that would move & kick your hand.

See! Look at this! Who would want a new girlfriend that looked like this?

But being the nice person I am, I never said anything.

I did the quiet, subtle thing, and left.

I can't deal with a person who would sit there and worry about me cheating that much that it crippled our relationship. Really. I'm better off alone. Even if it means I'd have to work twice as hard to live a stable life.

I never knew how important trust was in a relationship was until then...

But I'm done with that era of my life & moving on to bigger, badder & better things. =]

Just me, myself & I.

It's been almost a month on my own now after a year, 3 months & I cant remember how many days with the same guy & a baby later.

And you know what? I like it. And I'll keep liking it until I can find someone worthy of the great Raven's presence & time.

Really... We all deserve a good guy or girl more than once in our lives. Don't we?